What is Adulting? Grasping Adulthood and Its Meaning

Welcome to a unique Adulting Starts Here blog post, where we specifically explore the concept of “adulting” and its significance in today’s society. Usually we are offering insight, advice, or “how-tos” on the blog, but this time we wanted to specifically write something dedicated to today’s young adults.

As you navigate your way through life, you may have heard the term “adulting” thrown around, especially on social media, but what exactly does it mean? In this post, we aim to define the term and shed light on its importance in our daily lives.

Let’s dive in!

Explanation of “What is Adulting?”

According to Merriam-Webster, “Adulting” is an informal term that refers to the act of behaving in a mature and responsible way, particularly when it comes to taking care of oneself and managing adult responsibilities.

This usually encompasses the idea of knowing how to do basic skills or those simple life skills to survive. It can include things like paying bills on time, maintaining a job, taking care of one’s physical and mental health, and making important decisions related to personal finance, relationships, and career advancement.

Why adulting has become a popular concept

“Adulting” has become a popular concept in recent years, particularly among millennials and Gen Zers who are transitioning into adulthood.

This age group faces unique challenges and pressures, such as mounting student debt, a competitive job market, and societal expectations to have everything figured out soon after leaving high school.

The term “adulting” has become a way to acknowledge these challenges and the effort it takes to navigate them successfully as young people.

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Why is adulting important?

Transitioning from dependence to independence

Adulting is important because it marks the first time someone truly begins their transition from dependence to independence. As we grow up, we are gradually expected to become more self-sufficient and take on increasing responsibilities.

This can include simple tasks like doing our own laundry, cooking meals for ourselves, and building up to more complex tasks like managing our finances and determining the type of career path that we want to pursue. Young adulthood is the timeframe upon which we make this transition usually between the ages of 18-27 but can really end around as late as age 34.

Developing life skills and becoming self-sufficient

Adulting is an essential part of developing life skills and becoming self-sufficient.

By taking responsibility for our own lives and learning how to handle adult responsibilities like time management, we become more capable of living independently and making sound decisions that will benefit our future selves and livelihoods.

Self-sufficiency can also lead to a greater sense of confidence and self-esteem, which can positively impact other areas of our lives like our social life and just our all around ability to face the real world.

Achieving personal and professional goals

Achieving personal and professional goals is another reason why adulting is important. This 18-27 age range is where we really get to lay the foundation upon which we are going to build our adult life.

As young people we have time on our side as we try to figure out a career path and how to embrace both the new opportunities that come with adulthood and the mundane demands that come with being a full-fledged adult.

It is not easy, but determining our personal and professional goals is a big part of building our future and nurturing those life skills that promote healthy adult behaviors.

So, whether it’s advancing in our careers, pursuing higher education, or starting a family, being able to handle adult responsibilities and make independent decisions is crucial to successfully making to your late 20s and into your 30s.

Challenges of Adulting

Alright, so that was some of why adulting is a thing, but let’s now talk about why adulting is such a pain. Despite the benefits of adulting, there are a variety of factors that are creating significant challenges for younger generations compared to previous generations. Let’s discuss some of those challenges below!

Overcoming obstacles and setbacks

Overcoming obstacles and setbacks is generally a significant challenge of adulting. What are said obstacles and setbacks? Well, it’s life in general. 

Life is unpredictable, and setbacks are a natural part of the adulting process. From losing a job to dealing with the challenges of the housing market amid rising housing costs, there will be many hurdles to overcome.

Navigating these obstacles can be stressful and challenging, but with perseverance and resilience, it is possible to overcome them and continue on the path of “successful adulting.” Keep in mind that “successful adulting” will look different for everyone.

Some people will see themselves as successful if they can build a family while others might see success as separate from family and focus on building a successful career or traveling the world. The lucky few of us will be able to do both if that is how we choose to define “our” success.

Coping with stress and financial uncertainty

Coping with stress and uncertainty is another significant challenge of adulting. It is important to acknowledge that adulting can be stressful, and there will always be uncertainties in life.

Whether it’s financial worries, relationship struggles, health concerns, or failing at work-life balance adulting comes with a lot of responsibilities and potential stressors. Learning how to cope with stress and uncertainty in a healthy way is crucial for overall well-being in your daily life.

This can include practicing self-care, such as exercise and mindfulness, seeking support from loved ones or a mental health professional, or finding healthy ways to relax and unwind, like pursuing a hobby or taking a vacation.

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Balancing Priorities and Responsibilities

Balancing priorities and responsibilities is one of the most significant challenges of adulting. As an adult, you will have many responsibilities competing for your time and attention plus the obligation to 

From work and family to hobbies and self-care, finding a balance that works for you can be difficult. It is essential to prioritize and schedule your time effectively, so you can give attention to the things that matter most while still getting everything done.

Remember that it’s okay to say no and set boundaries when necessary.

Strategies for Successful Adulting

While adulting can be challenging, there are strategies we can adopt to help us navigate this process successfully.

Cultivating Positive Habits and Adult Behaviors

Cultivating positive habits and adult behaviors is crucial for becoming a responsible adult. This should involve caring for ourselves physically and emotionally, maintaining an optimistic mindset, and building constructive daily habits.

By developing resilience through these positive habits, we can better handle the various challenges and responsibilities that come with becoming an independent adult. Establishing a strong foundation of healthy practices will equip us to manage the stresses and changes of this new phase of life.

Continue Learning & Growing

Another key strategy for successful adulting is to continue learning and growing. There is a lot that we do not know and there is a great deal that we should care to know if we want to taking this adulting thing seriously. So embrace the learning journey. You are already doing a great job just by reading this blog post. Keep it up.

Get an understanding of the basic responsibilities that come with adulthood. Start improving your financial literacy. Learn about the common and necessary tasks that most 20-somethings have to deal with. Learn about health insurance, health care costs, credit cards, what’s a good car payment amount, and how to generally thrive as a young adult.

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There’s no one right way to go about this learning journey. There are many places to get started depending on your current resources.

Do note that nowadays there are a ton of online resources that you can use for free. YouTube is a good example. You can practically find a video on anything you want to about on YouTube.

Build A Strong Support Network

Another key strategy for successful adulting is building a support network that is full of positive relationships and people that both challenge you to be better and celebrate even your little accomplishments.

Whether it’s friends, family members, or trusted professionals, having a support system can make all the difference. You should also seek out different communities as a way to better develop social life.

One thing that has become very apparent is the solitude epidemic that seems to be overtaking Gen Z and younger generations. We have to find ways to continue engaging and building healthy, social communities where we can surround ourselves with generally positive people. We will need support because life is tough and that quarter-life crisis is no joke.

Develop Realistic Goals & Prioritize Time Management

Setting realistic goals and priorities is also essential for successful adulting. If you have read any other articles from Adulting Starts Here, you know that I am an avid believer in sharpening your time management skills. Time management is so important in adulthood. It is really one of the life skills that can determine how tough some tasks will end up being for you.

Why?

Well, by breaking down larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks, we can avoid feeling overwhelmed and better acknowledge the progress we are making toward achieving our goals.

Now, when it comes to developing goals and practicing good time management, it’s important to remember that success looks different for everyone. Therefore, it’s essential to set goals and priorities that align with your values and aspirations.

Don’t compare yourself to others and focus on your own journey. Remember that everyone has their own pace, and it’s okay to take breaks and reassess your goals.

Building Financial Security

Managing finances effectively is another crucial strategy for successful adulting and I would argue the most important. Learning how to budget, manage your own taxes, and invest wisely are all key components of managing finances effectively to build financial security.

If there is nothing else that we all can agree on, it’s that we want to have financial stability. I have shared a lot of info here at Adulting Starts Here on the topic of personal finance and how to build financial security as a young adult.

Take a look around the blog and see what might interest you. There’s info ranging from credit scores and credit cards to how to set up an emergency fund. It’s all here to help you learn and grow.

Read More: 16 Personal Finance Tips Every New Adult Should Know

Putting It All Together

To wrap it all up, adulting is a broad concept that encompasses many aspects of life between the ages of 18 and 34. Understanding what it means and why it is important can help us navigate the challenges of adulthood and achieve our goals.

We have discussed the definition and importance of adulting, as well as some of the key life skills and habits that are essential for success.

Remember, adulting is a journey, and there is always more to learn and improve upon. So, be sure to check out our Adulting Duties section for more tips and insights to help you better transition into adulthood.

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